I’ve been a long-time follower of Dr. Becky on Instagram. She’s a child psychologist with three kids of her own and always shares practical advice. Recently, she posted about setting boundaries for kids, reminding us that even though they may protest, kids actually need boundaries to feel safe “to learn, explore, and grow.” Couldn’t agree more!
One rule in our house? Outdoor time is non-negotiable. Rain or shine, hot or cold, my kids need to spend time outside every day.
Last Friday, the kids were off school, and the weather was so beautiful. Instead of tackling my laundry list of to-dos, we went for a hike in Stowe, VT. We tackled Spruce Peak to check out the “snowliage” (snow at the top, foliage at the bottom—Vermont at its finest!). Everything was going great until halfway up when my son decided he was done. The whining started, and he wanted to turn back. But I held the line: “We’re finishing this hike unless there’s an emergency!” Tears were shed, but I stayed firm. This was a golden opportunity to teach perseverance! With some encouragement, a hand to pull him up, and the promise of a treat, he finally rallied. Soon, he and his sister were racing to the top like it was a game. Success!
Sure, it would’ve been easier to stay home while I catch up on my to-dos, but I believe exploring the outdoors is essential—and to be honest, I needed the fresh air too!
Winter is much easier now that I don’t have to worry about my kids being cold. I’m that mom who always thinks her kids are cold (maybe it’s just me?), but with their Hootie Hoo gear, I no longer worry. I’ve got them suited up in some of the best gear around😊. Even if they say they’re cold after 10 minutes outside, I know it’s not true – unless it’s –20 degrees, and even then, they can layer up! Outdoor play is so important, especially in winter. It clears their minds, boosts immunity, and burns off energy!
Boundaries may take effort to set, but once they’re in place, kids thrive. What boundaries do you set for your kids? Any tips or ideas to share?